or decades in the Church, bishops have shielded priests who were known to them to be abusing minors. Chile’s bishops finally did one right thing and resigned en masse. (The pope accepted three of them.) And earlier this year, Pope Francis laicized Archbishop McCarrick, himself an abuser. After a while, things like this appear like token gestures, as bishops make a display of “demanding accountability” and “taking steps to ensure,” and then return to business as usual. Except sometimes they look up from the cozy trappings of clericalism long enough to notice: Gee, people are leaving the Church. How can this be?
In June, Mary Pezzulo at Steel Magnificat had some words to say about that:
They left because you hurt them, Fathers. Don’t you remember? You participated in physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual abuse of your flock. Some of you abused them yourselves. Most all of you protected abusers from being stopped, at one time or another. You coddled abusers. You sent them away for counseling instead of exposing and stopping them. You transferred them to different parishes so they’d do it again. At every time you could have made your flock your priority, you made abusive priests your priority instead. You gaslit victims. You lied to and about victims. You threatened victims. You re-traumatized them. You emotionally abused people who had already been sexually abused, to make them shut up and go away. You killed people– you forced abortions, which is killing, and you drove victims to suicide. Their blood is on your hands. The only mystery is why the number isn’t higher. By the grace of God and not by your efforts, some of us are still here.
In short, you turned the Church into a concentration camp.
And then yesterday, the USCCB posted on Facebook a piteous plea for Catholics to “stay with us.” That’s the theme for Catechesis Sunday this year, the USCCB said: Stay with us!
Golly, you know, that’s just what abusers say: Stay with me. Don’t leave. I promise this time it will be different.
Right.
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Here’s an idea. You want to hand on the faith? You want to be a witness to the Gospel? Then here’s a Gospel text for you to start witnessing to:
Then said he unto the disciples, It is impossible but that offences will come: but woe unto him, through whom they come! It would be better for him to have a millstone hung around his neck and to be thrown into the sea than to cause one of these little ones to stumble.
How many Catholics have been abused or have stumbled in their faith because you shielded abusers, or were abusers yourselves? Woe unto you, through whom these offenses have come!
If it is so important to you that Catholics not leave and find other churches (or no church at all), then how about some public penance—and I mean severe public penance? How about catechizing Catholics on the temporal punishment due to sin by accepting it for yourself and resigning? You have been the cause of grave scandal in the Church, and it requires a great deal more than going to confession in private and saying a couple of Aves in private. This requires a serious public act of personal accountability before God and before the Church. What is most certainly not needed are tone-deaf, plaintive pleas to “please stay.”
Resign.
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